Speaker 1:                           00:00                     Okay, you guys have an amazing life changing conference. Now. We just had to get some people here. I want to share with you guys a tip, a quick tip, a trick, a tactic that I learned several years ago in this tactic freed me up to recruit more people and to ultimately get more people to our conference. And also on the backend. It really helped me, uh, with the people that said no and could not go to the conference. Uh, it helped me have a better relationship with them. So what are we all afraid of when we’re recruiting? We are afraid of the no. We hate the know whether, uh, you know, we hate putting that person in that situation where there’s this awkward like, Oh no, and you’ll, how are we going to respond to that? Or maybe we feel like it’s a blow to our ego.

Speaker 1:                           00:57                     Well, you need to stop getting nos and you need to learn how to get a yes every single time. So this will free you up to be able to recruit, uh, anybody because a no is awkward. So it get the yes. And so you won’t feel uncomfortable talking to someone cause you know, you can get them to say yes to something. Uh, and then there’s also a psychological thing that’s going on in a person’s brain when they just say yes to something. So you definitely, no matter what, you want to get a yes that something. Uh, so you might be sitting there talking to a guy, talking to a girl and you’ve told them about your conference, about your retreat. And they’ve said they can’t go. It could, you know, and they’re going to give some, who knows the real reason, but they’re going to tell you you’ve got something going on that weekend.

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Speaker 1:                           01:49                     Uh, you know, something’s already planned. They’ve, their parents don’t want them to go, whatever it is. And so what I would say is, Oh man, that makes total sense that you can’t do that. Okay. So what if that one thing doesn’t work out? If the ski trip gets canceled, will you then make our conference the backup option? And sometimes people would say yes to that. I would even sometimes just say, will you consider, okay, so if that one thing doesn’t go through, and they might say, well actually, if I don’t own this key trip, I’m going to my dad’s house and that might be a legitimate thing. I have no idea. So I say, okay, so if you can’t go on the ski trip and if, and then if you can’t go to your dad’s house, will you then consider making our conference the backup backup option?

Speaker 1:                           02:45                     And how can they say no to that? It’s like, well, yes, I will consider it. So, uh, and then as soon as they say yes, you get excited, like, yes, that’s awesome. Uh, and so it totally changes the, how the conversation is now. It’s not this, no, I can’t go. Or now it’s yes, like they might consider it. And so now you leave on good terms with that person. It’s not awkward. And they’ve said yes and psychologically, uh, now that they’ve said yes to considering it when they said no, if they do, if you leave with them saying no, like it’s probably end up for good. But if they’ve at least said yes to considering it, now there is a higher chance of them actually going. So you guys got to get a yes. If something a yes to a backup option, maybe a they will.

Speaker 1:                           03:42                     You can get them, yes. Can just considering next year, will you go next year? Now who knows if they’re gonna go or not, but it’s way better to get that yes to consider next year and then just say no. Just you know. So take that extra step. Get the yes. Maybe there’s asked the saying they can’t go because of money. So maybe you get them to say, okay, so what if I get you a scholarship? I don’t know if I can. There’s not a lot left. I don’t know what. But if I could, would you go or would you consider going? I threw that. Consider in there. I mean, it’s the soft sell. It’s not coming hard. It’s just considered because I want them to say yes. That is the point is to say yes. It’s not to actually pin them down and say no. You said you were going to go.

Speaker 1:                           04:26                     If all these things came through, that is not what I’m trying to do at all. It’s just they’re just saying yes and it’s so much better than a no. I’m not trying to hold anybody to anything that they say. So you guys start putting, putting this into place. You’ll find yourself feeling more comfortable and confident asking anyone to go because you know you’re going to, it’s going to lead to a yes. You know you can do it. So you’ll recruit more people. And then for the people who can’t come, you’ll have a better relation with them on the back end. So feel free to comment below and share how this has been working for you guys.

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